Topic > Essay on Divorce - 1151

Divorce (or dissolution of marriage) is the termination of a marital union, the annulment and/or reorganization of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of marriage between a couple married under the rule of law of a particular country and/or state. (Wikipedia, 2010)The main reasons observed in divorced couples are lack of sacrifice, forced marriages, greed, joint family system, difference in social status, lack of compatibility and understanding, as well as male-female chauvinism . Divorce affects couples, their children, their families and society in general. Divorce is not valued in any religion, but is only an option if there is no other solution left. Divorce is typically a painful process for all involved. As psychologists believe: “Although it may take adults some time to regain psychological balance, there continues to be debate as to whether children will ever regain a stable perspective. Post-divorce hostility between adults, in addition to directly harming children, is a sure indicator that the emotional split is incomplete.” (Dealing with Divorce, Psychology Today) Over the past two decades the trend towards divorce has been growing rapidly. While our sample population certainly believes this is not a good rule, they are certainly helpless about the entire situation. Divorce as a taboo has profoundly enriched our lives and even with a strong culture, norms and traditions, many cases are seen everywhere. According to Nicholas Wall, former President of the Family Division of the English High Court, "People think that parenting after separation is easy - in fact, it is extremely difficult, and as a rule of thumb my experience is that the more intelligent the parent , all the more more intractable the dispute... half of the paper... between both parents According to the primary research conducted, it has been proven with great surprise that academic development is a deficient area in children is because the mother who was responsible of teaching social subjects to his children is no longer present and the father who helped the child with science and mathematics is also absent. Another simplistic hypothesis gathered from the secondary research was that children lacked confidence for a long time. However, to our surprise, the survey found that only 8% of people believe that children lack self-confidence. This could be a result of children's self-independent behavior from an early age. This may also be a result of both working parents and children being taught to be independent. According to what people believe, self-realization and social adaptation are equally obstacle-free.