Maybe they didn't listen to you when you grounded them or didn't learn their lesson when you took everything away from them, but they're sure they'll never do that again once they feel embarrassed. This is the use of shame. Shame is a social emotion that is used as a way to provoke a person to transform their bad behaviors or habits into good and accepted behaviors. This action is used on children by parents, by parents themselves and to help promote healthy living and well-being. It also manifests itself in various forms in the judicial system. There are many anti-shame opinions, but many of these are about the effects of overusing shame and not the shame itself. When applied with the right amount of force, shame can be very effective in the evolution of society. Teenagers go through phases in the adolescent stage of their life. They are curious, provocative and insolent. A parent's primary concern is ensuring that their child is protected from dangerous and problematic situations, particularly those that may result in self-harm and continue into future self-harm. A parent has few approved tactics to act upon once they have already taken away the child's privileges, grounded them, and explained what they did wrong, but that child continues to misbehave anyway. Being a teenager myself, we have to understand that a teenager's mindset is almost always focused on not feeling embarrassed. Because most teens are aware of their reputation, they are less likely to rebel again once they realize their reputation is in danger. That feeling of anguish is so unbearable and hard to forget that it surpasses any desire for anything even remotely similar to what he's ashamed of ever again. When Renee and Gentry Nickell tried everything by... by means of paper ......to shame” a form of bullying because it can degrade a person but, if you see a person in very poor health, it would mean more to tell them than to allow them to continue to put their health at risk. What society calls "fat shaming" is nothing more than steering someone's health in the right direction by creating a devotion in that person to want better. Confusing bullying and shaming is not uncommon these days. The goals of bullying and shaming are very different from each other. Shame is and should be used in a way that helps change someone's negative behavior and prevents it from expanding from a simple phase to a lifetime. The bully's only goal is to make someone feel unwanted out of jealousy or for no reason. The bully is usually someone who is not that close to the victim and leaves emotional scars rather than a life lesson. Shame has educational purposes