When you were growing up you didn't have to worry about many things like bills, money, or even a job; so when the time comes for some people to grow up and make their own decisions, they don't know where to start. If someone asked them “what will you do now?” they wouldn't know how to answer that question because it's something that's hard for them to talk about. As some children begin to grow, they begin to think about what they want to be when they grow up, but others do not; so as adults it can be difficult for them to talk about because they have never thought about it. I think deciding what your next step in life will be is going to be difficult because you don't want to make the wrong choice. It can also be difficult to talk because maybe there is someone who admires you or maybe there is someone who judges you. Even the next step can make or break you. If you don't succeed at what you're trying to do, it can be even harder to talk to someone about it, because you've put all your hard work into it..