The difference in opinion is between men and women. Female readers often (and I mean often) think of Mr. Gray as a dominant, strong, sexy man who can make any woman's dreams come true, and many women pass this on to their partners, which has been a major obstacle for men. However, closer analysis reveals that Christen Gray is more complex, more grounded than it might seem at first glance. Rather than simply being strong and sexy, Mr. Gray is shown to be emotionally and mentally unstable, which I would describe as disturbing. Some of the scenes that women describe as Mr.Grey as a sex god are how he always pleases the woman first or how he makes sure she is teased and satisfied multiple times. Also, use toys and erotic ideas like a blindfold to increase his pleasure and fear at the same time. Many readers (especially women) think that sex goddess Christen Grey, (while dominating with spanking, bruise-inducing beatings, tied up to be teased and left alone for complete torching, aggressive use of toys in different parts of the body) bodies ) is exactly what they want in their home life now. However, in reality, if we analyze the character deeper and pay attention to Mr. Grey's flaws, it is clear that we are dealing with a psychopath