My Aunt Wilha takes no prisoners and openly tells you what's on her mind. At first I thought it wasn't a good quality to have because some family members would get mad at her for telling the truth, but as life goes on the family learns to appreciate her honesty. She is also the peacemaker in the family. Aunt Wilha has a personality that can't resist animosity for long. His thought process on animosity is that life is too short to hold grudges against those you love and who love you back. Although sometimes I think it was a bad concept to have. I'm learning to live and let go of resentments. Her thinking showed me as a woman the true meaning of how to get along with even your worst enemy and showed me how taking pride in everything you accomplish, even though you may not be successful, does not define who you will become. Without my aunts the collection of family gossip will probably cease to exist. The more family members come to the gatherings, the more gossip is generated in the house and