Deep Thoughts #2 -- Many Women Get Married for the Wrong Reason“Love is an ideal thing, marriage is a real thing; the confusion between real and ideal never goes unpunished”, said Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. An American wealth research firm, Prince and Associates, once conducted research on a sample group of more than thirty women who had married for money. Surprisingly, about 75% of the group said “yes.” In fact, many women admit that they would rather marry a billionaire they barely know than a penniless guy they truly love. We often read it in novels and see it in those late night soap-dramas, in the most romantic setting with exquisite background music, the main character solemnly promises his passionate love to the actress with ninety-nine roses in his hand; the female character obviously feels touched by his actions and blissfully accepts his proposal. Unfortunately, those fairy tales are too good to become true. Take Mr. and Mrs. Bennet from Pride and Prejudice for example, it is quite obvious that these two irresponsible adults did not marry out of pure love. Mr. Bennet was more attracted to Mrs. Bennet's physical appearance in his youth, and rushed into the courtship without further consideration. As time passes, Mrs. Bennet no longer has her beautiful face. Twenty years later, Mr. Bennet lost interest in her and regretted ever marrying her. As you can see, in the twenty-first century, an era full of fierce competition, material gain is the first thing most women worry about when they get married, followed by physical attraction and the security of a stable home. Prejudice, Mr. Wickham is a typical character who marries only out of desire for money. “Regarding... the center of the paper... time, it is the form of two souls uniting emotionally, physically and spiritually. However, there are still many women who willingly lower their standards and accept the first person they meet, because they have a seductive face with a charming body. Others are just looking for a companion to help them and occupy a moderate and welcoming family. Knowing that spending the rest of your life with one person without an anticipated relationship basis and much communication can be painful, but there are still many "gold diggers", willing to throw away their freedom and a relaxing single lifestyle for money. Their belief is to accept a lifestyle in which their vanity and snobbery can be satisfied. Too many women have never realized that they have been caught up in the vortex of marriage and have drowned their happiness with their own hands.