The author was forced to face many backlashes during her youth and this forced her to confront the truth. Because he has given her “great and loyal friends,” she may want to reconcile with them by allowing them to understand her scar. Throughout the letter, she brought the more positive side of the story rather than the negative and identified that she wanted the participant, those who had previously hurt her, to recognize and realize that what they did to her did not humiliated but only surrendered. stronger and more independent